{"id":180,"date":"2006-08-20T12:00:28","date_gmt":"2006-08-20T17:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/?p=180"},"modified":"2021-08-18T10:16:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-18T17:16:19","slug":"church-under-construction-behavioral-phase-part-4","status":"publish","type":"sp_sermon","link":"https:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/news\/Message\/church-under-construction-behavioral-phase-part-4","title":{"rendered":"Church Under Construction &#8211; Behavioral Phase: Part 4"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pastor Mark Mikels<br \/>\nAugust 20, 2006<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;MY<br \/>\nWITNESS IN THE WORLD &#8211; Part Two&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Eliminate The Negative!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Church Under Construction &#8211; Behavioral Phase #4<\/p>\n<p>Intro &#8230; This morning we continue the focus that we began last Sunday<br \/>\n&#8211; the focus on our witness in the world as we live out our lives as<br \/>\nfollowers of Jesus Christ and members of Sonlife Community Church. Last<br \/>\nweek in a message that we could have sub-titled &#8220;Demonstrate the<br \/>\nPositive&#8221; we placed our attention upon the statement in our Sonlife<br \/>\nCovenant of Behavior which says &#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I will endeavor to give positive witness of my relationship to Jesus<br \/>\nChrist by word and deed in every circumstance in which I am placed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In other words, in every situation of life in which I find myself, I<br \/>\nwill seek to demonstrate the fact that my relationship with Jesus<br \/>\nChrist produces a positive and productive effect upon my life! We saw<br \/>\nlast week (notably in 1 Peter 2:15) that the &#8220;demonstration of that<br \/>\npositive effect&#8221; frequently creates an opportunity for witness as<br \/>\nunbelievers around us &#8220;ask us a reason for the hope that we have&#8221;.<br \/>\nDemonstrating the positive through our words and deeds as we bear<br \/>\nwitness to our relationship with Jesus Christ prepares the way for<br \/>\neffective witness. Surely, Christ would have all of His Own<br \/>\ndemonstrate the positive in their daily lives!<\/p>\n<p>Now having discussed that at some length last week and having said that<br \/>\nlast week&#8217;s message in a way establishes the context for this week&#8217;s<br \/>\nmessage, I want you to consider with me today&#8217;s Key Concept:<\/p>\n<p>Key Concept &#8230; In the living of the Christian Life, eliminating<br \/>\nthe NEGATIVE is as important as demonstrating the POSITIVE.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how our Sonlife Covenant expresses it &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I will refrain from any activity or practice of life that might<br \/>\ndiscredit the name of Jesus, harm the temple of the Holy Spirit (my<br \/>\nbody), hinder a fellow believer, or cause my personal testimony to be<br \/>\ncompromised.&#8221; (Romans 2:24; 1 Corinthians 6:19-10; 8:9; 1 Timothy<br \/>\n4:12b,15-16; Proverbs 23:29-35)<\/p>\n<p>Consider the Key Action Phrase in that statement&#8230; &#8220;I will refrain &#8221; &#8211;<br \/>\nI will stay away from &#8211; I will avoid at all costs &#8211; I will have nothing<br \/>\nto do with &#8230; What? What are the things from which I will refrain?<\/p>\n<p>That Covenant statement identifies &#8230; FOUR THINGS THAT I AS A<br \/>\nCHRISTIAN WILL NOT DO &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>1. I WILL NOT DISCREDIT THE NAME OF JESUS &#8211; that is, &#8220;Make Him LOOK<br \/>\nbad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As it is written: &#8220;God&#8217;s name is blasphemed among the Gentiles because<br \/>\nof you.&#8221; &#8211; Romans 2:24<\/p>\n<p>Could there be anything worse than that? To have the One we claim to<br \/>\nlove and follow actually discredited in the eyes of others because of<br \/>\nthe way that we live our lives? That condition was originally<br \/>\nattributed to Israel in Old Testament Days by the prophets Isaiah and<br \/>\nEzekiel &#8230; (Isaiah 52:5; Ezekiel 36:22)<\/p>\n<p>Because of their disobedience God had allowed His People to be overrun<br \/>\nby their enemies; they were taken into captivity and in their captivity<br \/>\nthey had become an object of scorn and their God had become a symbol of<br \/>\nimpotence. How feeble must their God be that He could not protect them<br \/>\nfrom the invader! So God&#8217;s Name linked to His People had become a joke<br \/>\nand their faith a farce &#8211; their disobedience had caused Him to withdraw<br \/>\nhis hand of blessing and thus He Himself had suffered humiliation right<br \/>\nalong with His People!<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the point for us today &#8230; Jesus&#8217; name is attached in people&#8217;s<br \/>\nminds to every one of us who calls himself &#8220;Christian&#8221;. The way we live<br \/>\nreflects either positively or negatively upon him. Like it or not, it&#8217;s<br \/>\npossible for us to &#8220;make Him look bad&#8221; &#8211; to make him less desirable<br \/>\nthan He might otherwise be!<\/p>\n<p>Illustration: Have you seen the signs posted on the back of many trucks<br \/>\non the road asking -&#8220;How am I driving?&#8221; with a company phone number to<br \/>\ncall? Imagine what it would be like if all Christians were to have a<br \/>\nsign on their backs saying &#8220;How am I living\/behaving?&#8221; with their<br \/>\npastor&#8217;s number to call! What kind of calls would your Pastor be<br \/>\nreceiving?<\/p>\n<p>It is reported that the famous Indian philosopher and social reformer<br \/>\nMahatma Gandhi once said &#8230; &#8220;Give me your Christ but not your<br \/>\nChristianity&#8221;. He, at least, could see past the performance of those<br \/>\nwho called themselves Christian and realize there was more than what<br \/>\nthey were demonstrating but most people can&#8217;t. Most people figure that<br \/>\na Christ who can&#8217;t change us into something worthwhile is not worth<br \/>\ninvestigating let alone following.<\/p>\n<p>And so we go on record as a congregation as saying &#8230; &#8220;I will refrain<br \/>\nfrom any activity or practice of life that might discredit the name of<br \/>\nJesus &#8230; I will not Make Him Look Bad!&#8221; Ask yourself in every<br \/>\nsituation &#8230; Will this behavior of mine make people think better or<br \/>\nworse of Jesus?<\/p>\n<p>2. I WILL NOT HARM THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT &#8211; that is, &#8220;Make His<br \/>\nHOME Bad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside<br \/>\nhis body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you<br \/>\nnot know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you,<br \/>\nwhom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought<br \/>\nat a price. Therefore honor God with your body.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>1 Corinthians 6:19-20<\/p>\n<p>Now there&#8217;s a thousand ways that that Scripture can be applied &#8230; I<br \/>\nhave personally used that scripture to pressure myself into &#8220;buckling<br \/>\nup when I get in my car&#8221;. It can be applied to our eating habits and to<br \/>\nour entertainment practices (sky diving or bungee jumping or motorcycle<br \/>\nriding or rock climbing) but I want us first of all to apply it today<br \/>\nin the primary way that Paul himself did &#8230; sexual misconduct.<\/p>\n<p>We are living in a day when the Church of Jesus Christ and when vast<br \/>\nnumbers of followers of Jesus Christ take a very lax position with<br \/>\nregard to sexual behavior. The Bible has never changed its position and<br \/>\nwe cannot either &#8230; sexual activity outside of the secure bonds of<br \/>\nmarriage is a violation of God&#8217;s prescribed plan &#8211; it is sin. And like<br \/>\nany sin, it negatively affects our fellowship with God. However, unlike<br \/>\nmany other sins, sexual sin directly affects the dwelling place of the<br \/>\nSpirit of God. Sexual sin, Paul says, is a sin against our own body and<br \/>\nas such adversely affects the Spirit of God Himself.<\/p>\n<p>Now, of course, the first focus here is sexual intercourse but all<br \/>\nsexual activity between two unmarried people designed to bring some<br \/>\ndegree of sexual satisfaction is included. Sexual sin corrupts the home<br \/>\nin which the Holy Spirit dwells &#8211; it makes His Home a bad place to be &#8211;<br \/>\na less than honorable place to be &#8211; and yet He is required to be there.<br \/>\nHow unpleasant that must be for him! Like some family in New Orleans<br \/>\ntrying to get comfortable once again in an home that is still filled<br \/>\nwith the muck of hurricane Katrina so is the Holy Spirit in the body of<br \/>\na believer that has been corrupted by sexual sin.<\/p>\n<p>With a degree of conviction borne of deep appreciation for the work of<br \/>\nthe Spirit in our lives we say &#8230; &#8220;I will refrain from any activity or<br \/>\npractice of life that might harm the temple of the Holy Spirit (my<br \/>\nbody) &#8211; I will not &#8220;Make His home bad &#8211; that is, a bad place for Him to<br \/>\nbe!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Well, we are halfway done &#8230; two down and two to go &#8230; two more<br \/>\nincredibly important things that our Sonlife Covenant says that I as a<br \/>\nChristian simply will not do &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>3. I WILL NOT HINDER A FELLOW BELIEVER &#8211; that is, &#8220;Make Him DO Bad&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become<br \/>\na stumbling block to the weak. For if anyone with a weak conscience<br \/>\nsees you who have this knowledge eating in an idol&#8217;s temple, won&#8217;t he<br \/>\nbe emboldened to eat what has been sacrificed to idols? So this weak<br \/>\nbrother, for whom Christ died, is destroyed by your knowledge. When you<br \/>\nsin against your brothers in this way and wound their weak conscience,<br \/>\nyou sin against Christ. Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother to<br \/>\nfall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause<br \/>\nhim to fall.&#8221; &#8211; 1 Corinthians 8:9<\/p>\n<p>In this passage, the Apostle Paul touches on an incredibly important<br \/>\nguideline for our Christian Living &#8230; As a Christian, I need to be<br \/>\naware of the way my behavior affects other Christians. There may well<br \/>\nbe things that I can do with a perfectly clear conscience that others<br \/>\ncannot. My behavior in those circumstances might offend or confuse<\/p>\n<p>or possibly even mislead them.<\/p>\n<p>In Paul&#8217;s day the issue was &#8220;eating meat that had been offered to<br \/>\nidols&#8221; that is, meat that had been presented to an idol as part of a<br \/>\npagan religious ceremony and that had then been made available to the<br \/>\npublic. Now Paul had previously pointed out to them (verse 4) &#8220;that an<br \/>\nidol is nothing at all in this world and that there is no God but one&#8221;.<br \/>\nTherefore, to eat meat that had been offered to idols &#8211; even in the<br \/>\nidol temple itself &#8230; think of a first century version of a &#8220;hotdog on<br \/>\na stick&#8221; vendor hawking his wares &#8230; was no big deal.<\/p>\n<p>That is, it was no big deal &#8230; UNLESS some younger, more vulnerable<br \/>\nbeliever made it a big deal! In that case, Paul says that he would<br \/>\n&#8220;refrain&#8221; &#8230; he would modify his behavior for the sake of the younger<br \/>\nbeliever.<\/p>\n<p>And our Sonlife Covenant says that each of us would do the same &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I will refrain from any activity or practice of life that might hinder<br \/>\na fellow believer &#8230; I will not make him do bad!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We should ask ourselves when about to engage in any controversial<br \/>\nbehavior &#8230; &#8220;Might this behavior cause distress and possibly even<br \/>\nbring defeat for any of my Christian brothers or sisters?&#8221; Certainly<br \/>\nwhen the answer is a definite &#8220;YES&#8221; we should refrain &#8211; for their sake<br \/>\nand Paul would say, &#8220;for Christ&#8217;s sake as well&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>And now just one remains of our &#8220;Elimination Quartet&#8221; &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>4. I WILL NOT COMPROMISE MY PERSONAL TESTIMONY that is, &#8220;Make ME Do<br \/>\nBad&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an<br \/>\nexample for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in<br \/>\npurity. Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so<br \/>\nthat everyone may see your progress. Watch your life and doctrine<br \/>\nclosely.&#8221; &#8211; 1 Timothy 4:12, 15-16<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing more cherished for a true follower of Jesus Christ<br \/>\nthan a &#8220;squeaky clean&#8221; personal testimony. There is nothing more<br \/>\nhonoring to Christ than to have the world say of us as Pilate did of<br \/>\nJesus, &#8220;I find no fault in him&#8221;. It doesn&#8217;t mean that the world &#8220;agrees<br \/>\nwith us&#8221; but it does mean that the world finds us to be people of<br \/>\npersonal integrity, living lives that are consistent and commendable.<\/p>\n<p>Recognize the powerful platform for witness that such a life provides,<br \/>\nour Sonlife Covenant affirms &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I will refrain from any activity or practice of life that might cause<br \/>\nmy personal testimony to be compromised &#8230; I will not make me do bad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And with that we conclude our look at these &#8220;Four Things that I as a<br \/>\nChristian will simply not do&#8221; &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I WILL NOT DISCREDIT THE NAME OF JESUS! I WILL NOT HARM THE TEMPLE OF<br \/>\nTHE HOLY SPIRIT!<\/p>\n<p>I WILL NOT HINDER A FELLOW BELIEVER! I WILL NOT COMPROMISE MY PERSONAL<br \/>\nTESTIMONY!<\/p>\n<p>All that remains is to draw your attention to this Final Thot &#8230; A<br \/>\nfinal thot that reiterates the point with which we began this<br \/>\ndiscussion.<\/p>\n<p>Final Thot &#8230; Our WITNESS in the world depends as much upon what we<br \/>\nDON&#8217;T do as it does upon what we DO!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pastor Mark Mikels August 20, 2006 &#8220;MY WITNESS IN THE WORLD &#8211; Part Two&#8221; &#8220;Eliminate The Negative!&#8221; Church Under Construction &#8211; Behavioral Phase #4 Intro &#8230; This morning we continue the focus that we began last Sunday &#8211; the focus on our witness in the world as we live out our lives as followers of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"template":"","meta":[],"categories":[9,3],"archive_item":"http:\/\/archive.org\/details\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com--church-under-construction---behavioral-phase-part-3b","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/sermons\/180"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/sermons"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/sp_sermon"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=180"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonlifecommunitychurch.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=180"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}